We as women have so much to do all day. As mothers, there is no end to our little-little tasks and daily chores. But one negative emotion is worry, which we are just not able to get out of our minds. ‘What if ….’ is a killer in all scenarios.
Just like most of us, I too started craving for silence. Silence not only around me but also inside me. Finding me time was not a problem at all. But every-time I would close my eyes, my worries would conquer me and my peace of mind. ‘What if this happens or what if that happens – I would come out of my me time more exhausted and anxious.
A close friend invited me for tea at her home and took me to her balcony to show me something. I had never seen something so serene and QUIET!!! A SMALL LOTUS POND. We just sat there sipping our tea in silence. I came back home so rejuvenated.
I decided to have one of my own. I went to check out some nurseries and finally found one. I put guppie fish in it so that there was no mosquito breeding. A new lotus takes about a year to bloom.
Every morning I sit in my balcony and have my tea next to the lotus pond. I cannot express in words how tranquil it is. When I look at the lotus blooms – all I can feel is thoughtless awareness, stillness, silence, and tranquility – something that my soul was yearning for. There is no noise – even inside me.
The water is dirty and muddy, yet the lotus is so pure and unharmed. It is not bothered or worried about what is around it. It will bloom with as much beauty, grace, and calmness. This is a great lesson I learned from the Lotus.
With proper planning, design, and maintenance, your lotus pond will become a focal point of beauty and serenity in your garden. Sit back, relax, and enjoy the sights and sounds of your own private oasis. Whether you're lounging by the water's edge, watching the lotus blooms open and close with the sun, or listening to the soothing sound of trickling water, your lotus pond will provide endless enjoyment for years to come.